On Thursday I got to see one of my dearest college friends, Becca. We met the summer of 1994 at the
HU Honors Symposium. She was from New Mexico and was a little bit country! We clicked right away and those 3 weeks started a fabulous friendship of silly antics, loud laughter and deep discussions. Our freshman year we were suite-mates and had loads of fun.
Our sophomore year, Becca jumped to my club. We had a blast at all the mixers, club socials, and even both won "Cutie Pie Awards" that May. She was in the car on my blind date with Jason... but that is a story for another day.
On a choir trip to
Paducah, Kentucky Becca told me some horrible news. She was not going to be able to come back to
HU for our junior year. We wept together. You see, our
friendship was not just loud laughter and
silliness, it was deeply spiritual. We prayed almost as much as we laughed.
The night before she left we prayed on the Ad.
Aud.
steps for a long time and cried our eyes out.
At the time it was terrible to see Becca leave, but her leaving
HU led her to meet her wonderful
husband Dane. He is a Godly man and the perfect match for Becca. So in June 2000, she was my maid of honor and in December 2000 I was her matron of honor.
She still lives in NM and of course we are in the GREAT state of TX. Many miles
separate us, but seeing Becca on Thursday it seemed as if not a moment had passed. We squealed, hugged, l
aughed, ate Mexican food, doted on Jacob and
Rylan, took photos, rubbed her pregnant belly, then cried again as we said good-bye.
Reflecting on the people God places in our lives is
overwhelming. As I look back and see how certain people supported me and helped me grow into a better Christian, a huge lump
swells in my throat. God is so good to us.
I want to share with you the verse that Becca and I adopted as our own way back in 1995. We still quote it to each other.
"I long to see you so that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to make you strong-- that is, that you and I may be mutually encouraged by each other's faith." Romans 1:11-12
So here is you challenge for today - call or write a note to an old friend that you have not talked to in a while. I know your day will be brightened and the Lord will bless both of you!